Facing an unexpected pregnancy can feel overwhelming. You may be working through your own thoughts and emotions, and it becomes even harder if someone else is trying to push you toward abortion. While seeking advice and support from others is natural, remember that this decision belongs to you.
At Mosaic Sexual Health Clinic, we’re here to help you consider your options. Our services are always free and confidential, giving you a safe place to process without pressure.
Here are some signs you may be experiencing pressure to choose abortion:
1. Conversations Keep Pointing One Way
If you’ve tried to bring up parenting or adoption but the people around you dismiss your thoughts or quickly change the subject back to abortion, this could be a red flag, and over time, this can make you second-guess your own instincts.
Your voice matters. You deserve to be heard and supported in exploring all of your options—not just the one others may prefer.
2. Help Feels Conditional
Sometimes people may offer to help cover travel or costs for an abortion, but don’t offer the same support if you mention parenting or adoption. When support only exists for one choice, it can feel one-sided and discouraging.
If you bring this up to the people you are talking with and they get defensive, it can be confirmation that their support is only going to exist for one option: abortion.
3. You Experience Emotional Pressure or Threats
If someone is trying to influence you with guilt, fear, or ultimatums—such as threatening to withdraw financial help or communication—that is not healthy support. In some situations, this pressure can escalate into emotional or even physical abuse.
If your partner becomes physically abusive as you try to discuss your options, please reach out for help. For immediate assistance, you can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.
You Have the Right to Take Your Time
Even if people around you act out of their fears or worries, you still have the right to pause, breathe, and consider what you want for your life and future. No one should rush you into making a decision.
At Mosaic Sexual Health Clinic, we offer a safe space to talk through and carefully consider your options. You don’t have to go through this alone—we’re here for you as you process the right decision for you, your health, and your future.
Schedule your free appointment today.
Mosaic Sexual Health Clinic does not perform or refer for abortions.
FAQs: Pressure and Pregnancy Decisions
Can someone else decide for me if I should have an abortion?
No. No one—whether a partner, parent, or friend—has the right to make this decision for you. This is your pregnancy and your choice.
What if I’m worried about losing support if I don’t have an abortion?
Some people may offer help only if you choose abortion. That can feel isolating, but you don’t have to face this on your own. Our team can connect you with community resources and provide a safe place to explore all of your options.
What should I do if I’m in an unsafe situation?
If you feel unsafe due to emotional or physical abuse, please seek immediate help. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 800-799-7233.
What support does A Women’s Pregnancy Center provide?
We offer free pregnancy confirmations, options information, and a compassionate team who will listen and walk with you—without pressure or judgment.